Wedding planning sounds so exciting…. Until you see the checklists with thousands of items on them from sites like theknot.com. Seriously, who has the time and energy to do all of this stuff? I have just been skimming through the sites and tagging pictures I think are pretty and I’m already exhausted. I’m sure I’ll get more into it as we approach the T-minus one year mark and it starts to seem more real, but at the moment it’s so far away that I feel like we’re talking about everything in abstracts.
That brings us to my next point, which is that we’ve set a tentative date! Right now we’re thinking October 12, 2014. It will be a week after my internship is finished, so I’ll have a little bit of time when I get done to get those final details in order.
Right now we’re thinking we’ll have the wedding in Austin, where my fiance’s family lives, since it’s fairly centrally located and hopefully everyone will have less travel time. It’ll also be a fun getaway for my family coming down from Dallas.
So far the things I have done are: a tentative guest list, which I have sent to the parents to start making adjustments, a wedding website (although I don’t really understand what it is for…?), some photos and ideas saved on the knot, and I’ve ordered bridesmaid gifts. I know it’s over a year away, but I should hope my friends won’t change before then. Here’s what I have planned:
I’m sending each of the girls a box with a bottle of wine and this label on it:
Also in the box will be this letter for their home in their first initial and my main (I think??) wedding colors, maroon and champagne.
That’s all I have for now! Do you guys have any wedding planning advice? I’m not going to lie, it all feels a little overwhelming at this point (which is why I’m trying to get the stuff I know I can do myself done)!